Thursday 21 December 2006

Why be a babysitter?

Being a babysitter is a responsible job. It’s not the sort of thing that you should enter into because all your friends are doing it or you just want the money. The money is great but you will gain a lot more satisfaction from the job if you take a little while to examine why you want to do it in the first place.

Maybe you love children? That’s a good start! Maybe you’re thinking of working with children in the future as a Nursery Nurse or assistant, or even as a teacher. Working as a babysitter is great as a ‘dry run’ for these jobs. Children can be endearing, cute, adorable and loveable. They can also be difficult, demanding, downright dislikable at times and totally exhausting.

If you discover that babysitting isn’t really for you, be honest with yourself and with the parents. Trying to continue a job like this when your heart isn’t in it can lead to a drop in standards and everyone will end up miserable.

I love it!

If you do enjoy it – make the most of the experience. Building a relationship with children and parents can be extremely rewarding and satisfying. If children are going to play a large part in your life, either as an employee or as a Mother (or Father) yourself – use it as a learning opportunity.

Watch the children as they play and observe how they reason things out through role playing or the use of dolls and toys. You might be amazed to find that even small children are highly observant of what is going on around them – especially things that they’re not supposed to know about or notice!

If you’re lucky enough to work regularly with one family, watch how the children are growing and changing. Their speech will alter and their physical abilities will change and become more defined.

Taking all of this in may sound like a lot of work but if you just absorb it while you play and interact with them, you will be learning a lot about children just by spending time with them.

How babysitting can affect you.

You will learn a lot about yourself. Many parents say that they didn’t know that they had a temper until they had children! Children are masters at testing you to your limit and beyond, just to see how far they can go. However, they love boundaries as it makes them feel safe. Don’t fall into the trap of over-indulging them just because it is cute to see them behave like tiny adults. They’re not and they’re looking to you for guidance and the safety of limitation.

It might feel strange at first to be ‘in charge’ of the children – unless you have younger brothers and sisters. It’s fairly important to be firm from day one. You can always relax a little later but if you start off too laid back, it’s much harder to regain control.

Having the responsibility of babysitting and carrying it out successfully can be a great confidence booster. This can affect other areas of your life. You may find that you’re not as shy as you once were or that it’s easier to make decisions.

Getting the most from babysitting can make it a fulfilling and enjoyable job. There is a saying that in any situation, you get out what you put in – and babysitting is a perfect example of that…so give it your best shot and enjoy!



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Friday 15 December 2006

How to get asked back time and time again ...

Being a good and trusted regular babysitter can be a wonderful experience. Many babysitters like to work regularly for the same families. This can work well for everyone involved.

The parents are happy to leave their children with you, knowing from experience that they are in good hands. This enables them to have a relaxed and enjoyable evening away from the home.

The children are happy because they now know you and hopefully feel safe and well cared for. This allows them to relax more which generally leads to better behavior.
You’re happy because the children are easier to deal with and the parents trust and like you. You will know the routine better and let’s face it, it’s regular money!

So just how do you get asked back again and again?

The perfect babysitter …

… doesn’t exist. But you can make an effort to be professional, respectful and display good behavior and trustworthiness. Much of it is common sense. Try and put yourself into the parents’ place and imagine what you would want from a babysitter – or how you would wish a stranger to behave in your home.
Make sure that you observe the basics.

Always be punctual and well dressed for the job. Dangly earrings that kids could swing on and tiny mini skirts that could offend should be left at home. Clean, well pressed jeans and a sweater are ideal. You may well be crawling around the floor with the children or have to make a sudden dash up the stairs. Keep your nails short and clean and don’t forget to leave your shoes at the door.
Be respectful in the home. Leave it as you found it. If the parents tell you to get yourself a snack, make sure that everything is washed and put away and the kitchen is tidy and clean.

After the kids have gone to bed, take a few moments to tidy away toys, DVD’s, coloring books etc. Plump up cushions and straighten up the place.

If any spills occur accidentally, wipe them up immediately. If there are any accidental breakages, report them to the parents on their return.
Make sure you have the parents’ contact numbers and an expected time for them to arrive home.

If a child in your care gets sick or has an accident, you must inform the parents immediately. No one will blame you for the sickness or accident (however careful you are, accidents can occasionally happen) but they will blame you for not letting them know about it.

Don’t forget that you are there to do a job. Even when the children have gone to bed and your time is your own, keep the TV or music down low. You need to be able to hear if the children are calling for you or are distressed. Check on them frequently to make sure that they are safe and sleeping peacefully.

When the parents return, you can mention any funny or endearing incidents that occurred and just reassure them that everything was fine. If it wasn’t fine, keep the information short, factual and non-judgmental.

Remember to be courteous and ask the parents if they enjoyed their evening and always thank them for letting you babysit, when you leave. Make sure they’ve got your phone number and let them know if you’re happy to babysit for them again in the future. If this seems likely to happen, give them some idea of your availability (including any dates that you can’t do) so that they can plan ahead.

One last word of caution - if you do become a regular babysitter for one family never let your good standards and respectful attitude drop. Always remember that you are being employed by this family – however friendly the relationship becomes.

Keeping your high standards will ensure you continuing employment and good recommendations to others.

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So Just How do You Get Asked Back Again and Again?

Being a good and trusted regular babysitter can be a wonderful experience. Many babysitters like to work regularly for the same families. This can work well for everyone involved.

The parents are happy to leave their children with you, knowing from experience that they are in good hands. This enables them to have a relaxed and enjoyable evening away from the home.

The children are happy because they now know you and hopefully feel safe and well cared for. This allows them to relax more which generally leads to better behavior.
You’re happy because the children are easier to deal with and the parents trust and like you. You will know the routine better and let’s face it, it’s regular money!

So just how do you get asked back again and again?

The perfect babysitter …

… doesn’t exist. But you can make an effort to be professional, respectful and display good behavior and trustworthiness. Much of it is common sense. Try and put yourself into the parents’ place and imagine what you would want from a babysitter – or how you would wish a stranger to behave in your home.
Make sure that you observe the basics.

Always be punctual and well dressed for the job. Dangly earrings that kids could swing on and tiny mini skirts that could offend should be left at home. Clean, well pressed jeans and a sweater are ideal. You may well be crawling around the floor with the children or have to make a sudden dash up the stairs. Keep your nails short and clean and don’t forget to leave your shoes at the door.
Be respectful in the home. Leave it as you found it. If the parents tell you to get yourself a snack, make sure that everything is washed and put away and the kitchen is tidy and clean.

After the kids have gone to bed, take a few moments to tidy away toys, DVD’s, coloring books etc. Plump up cushions and straighten up the place.

If any spills occur accidentally, wipe them up immediately. If there are any accidental breakages, report them to the parents on their return.
Make sure you have the parents’ contact numbers and an expected time for them to arrive home.

If a child in your care gets sick or has an accident, you must inform the parents immediately. No one will blame you for the sickness or accident (however careful you are, accidents can occasionally happen) but they will blame you for not letting them know about it.

Don’t forget that you are there to do a job. Even when the children have gone to bed and your time is your own, keep the TV or music down low. You need to be able to hear if the children are calling for you or are distressed. Check on them frequently to make sure that they are safe and sleeping peacefully.

When the parents return, you can mention any funny or endearing incidents that occurred and just reassure them that everything was fine. If it wasn’t fine, keep the information short, factual and non-judgmental.

Remember to be courteous and ask the parents if they enjoyed their evening and always thank them for letting you babysit, when you leave. Make sure they’ve got your phone number and let them know if you’re happy to babysit for them again in the future. If this seems likely to happen, give them some idea of your availability (including any dates that you can’t do) so that they can plan ahead.

One last word of caution - if you do become a regular babysitter for one family never let your good standards and respectful attitude drop. Always remember that you are being employed by this family – however friendly the relationship becomes.

Keeping your high standards will ensure you continuing employment and good recommendations to others.

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Tuesday 12 December 2006

The Babysitter from Hell - or what not to do!

This article is purely for entertainment purposes and is not to be followed in any way, shape or form!

No, really - don’t ever do any of this stuff!

• Turn up late or better still, not at all. For added impact, make sure the parents don’t have any contact phone numbers or an address for you.
• Don’t wash your hair for at least a week prior to the job.
• Arrive smoking a cigarette and find a pot plant to stub it out in.
• Walk in talking on your cell phone. Try to ensure the call lasts at least 20 minutes and wave the parents away with your hand if they try to get your attention.
• Wear your best punk gear and make sure you have all your piercings on show.
• Arrive with a spotty, greasy haired, sullen, tattoo-covered teenaged boy (or girl!) in tow.
• Arrive with a bag bulging with bottles of alcohol and cigarettes.
• Begin every sentence with ‘whatever’ or ‘…like’. Better still, be monosyllabic. Grunts work well.
• Totally ignore the children.
• Go straight to the refrigerator and help yourself to a great snack and drink.
• Walk past the parents, into the living room, stretch out on the sofa and be sure to keep your shoes on.
• Put your dripping can of soda on the coffee table without using a coaster. You get extra points here if the table is polished wood or antique.
• Pick up the remote and start searching for adult films.

Having made a great first impression – you can now concentrate on what to do while the parents are out…if they have dared to leave!
• Bully the kids into bed the moment the parents go. Threats are fine – the more scary the better.
• If you’ve arranged a party – it can start now!
• Find the house phone and call all those people cross country that you need to catch up with. You get extra points for international calls.
• Break open the alcohol. If you didn’t bring any, search the house until you find some and make sure you drink it all. Spilling it is optional but if you do – don’t mop up.
• Make out with your boyfriend on the sofa – or the parents’ bedroom if you’re feeling really daring.
• Watch an explicit DVD and for extra fun, when you’ve finished, put it into one of the kids DVD cases.
• Be sure to try out the Mom’s cosmetics, perfume, clothes and shoes. You get extra points for not putting it all away carefully.
• Cook yourself and your friend some food. Use as many pots, pans, bowls and utensils as you can and leave it all dumped in the sink. You get extra points for leaving spills on the worktops and floor.
• For the big finale, make sure you’re deeply asleep when the parents return.

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Sunday 10 December 2006

Be Safe - Health and Safety Issues for Babysitting

Homes can be dangerous places, especially for kids. The family that you are sitting for may be safety conscious and have stair gates and plug socket covers - or they may not. The fact remains that while you are caring for the kids, they are your responsibility and being safety conscious can save a lot of problems.

No one is expecting you to do a full safety check of the home - that would be impractical and inappropriate. The easiest way to keep the kids safe is to supervise them at all times. That way, if you see a safety hazard arising, you are there to step in and avoid it.

Some aspects of safety are fairly obvious. For example, don't let the kids play with anything sharp or put small things in their mouths, ears or nose; this goes double for babies!

If you have prepared food for the kids, make sure that saucepans are well back on the stove with handles turned in to the wall so that they can't be pulled down.

Keep kettles well back on the worktop out of reach.

If you make yourself a hot drink, keep it well out of reach. A high proportion of nasty burning accidents are caused by children pulling cups of tea or coffee over themselves.

Don't leave matches, lighters or medication lying around. Prevention is better than cure.

Most of safety awareness involves prevention. You are aiming to stop that accident or incident before it happens. The chances are that the kids will already be over-excited and playing or acting boisterously. Try and keep them as calm as you can and be firm.

Don't allow them to push, shove or hit each other or jump off (or up and down on) beds and sofas. Sliding down stairs or banisters or on loose floor rugs (or shiny floors) is also
a no-no.

Don't let them taunt the dog or cat. Even the most docile of pets can get fed up and retaliate!

Watch them closely if they are eating or drinking. Kids - especially over excited ones - can bolt their food, or try and talk or run about while they're chewing. If they start to
choke, you will need to know how to dislodge the food or object stuck in their windpipe. Get acquainted with the Heimlich maneuver before you become a sitter. It's quick and
simple but can save a life.

If you don't know,­learn!

Taking a course like the 'Super Babysitting' DVD will give you much more confidence to handle a health or safety situation. It can teach you how to prevent injuries and how to be prepared if an emergency arises. It will also make you appear professional and competent which is what parents want. It will also look great on your resume and will impress future employers!

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Friday 8 December 2006

What to do if a Child Gets Sick - Information for Babysitters

If a child is really sick, hopefully the parents won’t be going out. If they still wish to and you don’t feel happy or confident about it, you would be within your rights to refuse to sit.

However, there are some ailments that can suddenly arise once the parents have left. Children can get sick with alarming speed and it’s a good idea to know how you would handle this – before it happens!

If a child or baby does suddenly become ill for whatever reason, you must contact the parents. It may be something initially fairly trivial like running a fever, but if the parents are aware, it gives them the option of deciding whether to return home or not.

It also covers you, as a sitter. If you don’t contact them and they return home to find their child sick, they may be angry that you didn’t make that call.

Fever!

Children up to the age of five can suddenly run a fever for no apparent reason. It is a good idea to ask the parents whether the child is prone to doing this. They may have a stock of the medication that the child usually receives – or they may just open a window, take off the bedclothes and repeatedly sponge the child with a cloth wrung out in tepid water to lower the fever.

It’s important to get the temperature down as quickly as possible as some children can develop ‘febrile convulsions’ – a type of fit caused by high fever. If this happens, lay the child on their side and let the fit take its course, simply staying with the child until the fit is over to ensure their safety. It used to be common practice to put something, like a spoon or stick into the mouth during a fit but this is now considered unhelpful and possibly dangerous.

If the child is known to be prone to febrile convulsions, the parents will need to take them to see a Doctor the following day.

If they have never had a fit before or if you are worried, always call 911.

I feel sick…

Children are also prone to upset tummies. They will already be over-excited and may have over-indulged in food or drinks. They may become tearful, or very quiet, complain of feeling sick or that their tummy hurts.

If vomiting and / or diarrhoea occur, you will need to overcome any squeamishness, bathe the child and get them into fresh nightwear and possibly a clean bed.

Try and get the child to drink some water or soda to replace the lost fluid. Don’t give them a milky drink as this can trigger another attack or prolong a viral tummy bug. Once the child is comfortable and settled, you can deal with any soiled nightwear or bedding. It’s often easiest to initially put soiled bedding into the tub to soak prior to washing.

This is freaking me out!

These scenarios sound worrying but the chances are that none of these things will ever happen while you are babysitting. However, if you recognise that they might and you would rather be prepared, it can be lot less scary.

The general rule when kids get sick is to try and stay calm and deal with what you can. Most ailments will be fairly harmless and short-lived but can be alarming to deal with when you are alone and in charge. Don’t forget that you can always call your own home and ask your Mom and Dad for help or support.

The golden rules are:

Always call the parents.

If you feel out of your depth, call your Mom or Dad or a neighbour close to the family that you are sitting for.

If a child has collapsed, stopped breathing, had an accident or you are really worried about their health, call 911 first.

Disclaimer: This is not intended as a first aid or other medical guide, we recommend it as a starting point for you to inform your training - Superbabysitting.com cannot accept any responsibility or liability for your actions based on this information article. When babysitting, if you do not have proper medical training you should seek the advice of a trained person as soon as practicable.

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Thursday 7 December 2006

Before You Go Can I Just Ask ...

When you arrive at a babysitting job, the house may be calm with the children already in bed or it may be chaos!

Even if the kids are in bed, Mom will probably be in a hurry to finish getting herself ready to go out. She may have rushed home from work, fed and bathed the kids and got them into bed – no easy feat if they’re hyped up over the event. When you walk in, she won’t have the time (or energy) to spend ages telling you every important detail about the kids.

If the house is in uproar, it’s even less likely that you will get any really helpful information. You will need to pitch in immediately and take the pressure off Mom so that she can be ready in time to get out of the door!

This is where initial groundwork really pays off. When you are initially contacted for a babysitting job, make sure you ask all the right questions that will make everyone’s life easier on the night – especially yours!

If you baby-sit regularly and work for different families, it’s a good idea to write out a check sheet of questions. Make lots of copies of the sheet so that you can quickly pull one out and fill it in while you have the parent on the phone, or while you’re making a visit prior to the job.

What do I need to know?

Routine is a godsend for babysitters. You need to know if the kids have an evening and bedtime routine…and if they don’t! If there is no usual routine, your job will be more difficult. It helps to know this ahead of time so that you can work out what you’re going to do to keep them amused and how you’re going to get them into bed.

Will you be expected to feed the children and if so, what? Will Mom leave food or do you need to prepare it?

It’s worth having a question about toileting habits on your question sheet. For example, the child may usually be taken to the toilet a couple of hours after bedtime. This may be something that parents do so routinely that they may forget to tell you. This simple act can save a wet bed and the ensuing upset. It’s worth knowing where clean nightwear and sheets are kept!

Is the child on any regular medications, such as an asthma inhaler? If so, where are they kept and are the parents happy for you to administer them if necessary. If they are, make sure they show you how to use any form of medication correctly and safely so that you are all happy for this to happen.

Has the child been sat for before and was it a happy experience? If not, make a couple of short visits to get to know the child and parents.

What are the child’s usual sleep patterns? Do they sleep well or are they prone to night terrors or sleepwalking?

Essentials!

Make sure you have a cell phone number. If both parents have a cell phone, get both numbers.

You must know where the parents will be for the evening. If they are likely to change venues, i.e. from the movies to a restaurant, make sure you have the land line phone numbers of both places. Ask the parents to ring and let you know once they have arrived at a different venue.

Ask approximately what time they expect to be back.

Write down the address and telephone number of the home that you are in and keep it by the phone. In the extremely unlikely event of having to call 911, you will have the necessary information to hand.

It’s often helpful to ask the parents for the phone number of a helpful neighbour, just in case a situation arises in which you need help or support. It’s highly unlikely that you’ll need to call them, but it’s useful and comforting to know that you have backup close by.

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I want Mommy! Dealing with a Distressed Child as a Babysitter

If the child becomes inconsolable at Mom and Dad leaving for the evening, it can be very difficult to deal with and can be distressing for the child and the babysitter. There are several factors to take into account here. The child could become upset before the parents leave, which could make it very difficult (and sometimes impossible) for them to go.

It may be the first time that the parents have used a babysitter and their own anxiety may be transmitted to the child. Again, this is where good groundwork can really help. If this is to be your first babysitting job for the family, ask if they have used sitters before…and how well it went. Just knowing that they have used sitters before is no help if the experience was a disaster!

If they are leaving the child for the first time, it’s important to try and make at least one visit to the family prior to the actual job. Get to know the child (and the parents) a little. Reassure the child that you’re going to have lots of fun together and that they will be safe and happy with you.

Work out a plan with the child of what you will do while Mom and Dad are out. They may have a favorite DVD that they would love to watch with you – or a favorite game to play. Having a structure to the impending experience will lessen the unknown for the child.

If the child is young, try taking a soft toy to them a few days before and ask them to look after it for you. This will make them feel important in the relationship with you and may help to lessen the natural feelings of abandonment.

Driven to distraction…

If a child is desperately upset, remind them of that DVD or game and tell them how much you have been looking forward to it. Try and get into the distraction as quickly as possible. The longer the child remains upset, the longer it will take for you to calm them down.

If nothing seems to be working, pretending to be upset yourself can often help. It sounds a little crazy but it works. Don’t overdo it - you don’t want to upset them more. Just a few quiet, gentle sniffs and sad eyes from you can often jerk the child out of their upset and into sheer curiosity. It also momentarily gives them the upper hand in the relationship and gives them back a little power that they lost when Mom and Dad went through the door.

Keep it going…

Once you have the child’s attention, keep it. Focus all of your attention on them and have the next diversion lined up ready to take over as soon as the first one has lost their interest.

Interactive games such as modelling with Play-Doh are great as they require the child to be thinking about something else other than Mom and Dad. Role playing with dolls, plastic monsters or stuffed toys is also a great distraction.

Dealing with a temporarily broken-hearted child can be very wearing and exhausting but ultimately extremely rewarding. Just remember, it’s mainly in the planning and groundwork.

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Monday 13 November 2006

Night Terrors

Some studies estimate that as many as 15% of children suffer from night terrors at one time or another. They can happen at any age but are most usual in children aged between two and six. In rarer cases, they can last up to adolescence.


Babysitters are more likely to encounter a child having night terrors than nightmares. This is because nightmares usually happen in the early hours of the morning, whereas night terrors most often occur during the first four hours of sleep – typically 15 minutes to one hour after the child falls asleep. The major triggers are being overtired and a change of routine.


Up to 18% of children who suffer from regular night terrors also sleepwalk, so it’s important to keep them safe. Put a safety gate at the top of the stairs and don’t have the child sleeping in a bunk bed.


If you know that the child is prone to night terrors, it can help to gently wake them for a moment, shortly after they have fallen asleep and then let them go straight back to sleep. If done each night, this is often enough to break the cycle and the child will sleep through the night.


Blood curdling screams…


Although it can be very alarming to witness a child’s night terrors, it may help to know that they very rarely recall anything about the experience.


In a classic night terror, the child will wake up ‘early’ in the night, sit ‘bolt upright’, have their eyes open and often scream in a terrified way. They will be inconsolable and may appear convinced that there are spiders, snakes, monsters or people in the room.


They may also be sweating and can hyperventilate. It may seem as if they are awake but they are most often still fast asleep.


The initial reaction for the onlooker is to wake them up out of their fear but waking a child from a night terror can make them more frightened and upset. It is better to put your arms gently but firmly around the child and lay them down, speaking quietly to them, all the time, until they settle down.


Classic night terrors can last anywhere from 5 to 30 minutes and following the incident the child will most often go peacefully back to sleep…leaving you a nervous wreck!

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I wish they’d go to sleep!

Bedtime can be a battleground for babysitters. The kids may have been well behaved and reasonably easy to control all evening but as soon as bedtime is mentioned chaos can ensue!
You need to establish why the suggestion of bedtime is creating such resistance. It may just be that theyve had such a great evening with you that they dont want it to end. In which case good job! If this is the reason, a little bribery comes in handy.

Offering to read a bedtime story and therefore to prolong the fun a little longer - can often get them into their pyjamas and into bed. Make the story as long as you can and read it in a quiet, soothing, fairly monotonous voice. Were aiming to calm them down here so forget interactive or over-stimulating stories.

Last one into bed is a ...

If more than one child is involved in the bedtime rebellion, it is tempting to try and turn it into a race, just to get the little darlings under the covers. But this can backfire. The last child into bed may be upset to be last and the first one in will get horribly overexcited.

A calmer way to achieve the same outcome is to offer to read a story once all the children are in their pyjamas with their teeth brushed. That way, they are more likely to encourage and help each other rather than fight to be the winner.

Whats the routine?

This is where doing your background preparation really pays off. Hopefully, you are babysitting for kids who do have a usual bedtime routine which you will have previously asked Mom or Dad to explain, in detail.

If you look at it from the childs point of view, they have already had a very different evening to their usual so they are probably expecting bedtime to be different too. If you know their routine, well done! Now its just a case of following it and being fairly firm.

If there is no usual routine, which is becoming more common, it will be harder to convince them that it really is bedtime. Again, be gently firm and consistent until they realise theyre not going to win this one.

I want Mommy ...

Bedtime is often the point when the child realises that Mom and Dad really are out for the night and they may become scared or tearful. Reassure them that Mom and Dad are just out having a nice time and they will be back very soon. Again, with smaller children, a little gentle bribery often works.

Help the child to imagine how proud Mom and Dad will be that they went to bed without a fuss and were so good and well behaved. You could make a simple star chart on a piece of paper and for each thing the child does well throughout the evening, put a sticky gold star on the page. The child gets to keep the chart to proudly show Mom and Dad.

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